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THE FAIRNESS OF GOD

Question asked by multiple people:

Based on your understanding, Is there a common link between the religions of the world?  Also, since Jesus said that no one cometh to the FATHER but by me, can anyone who has never heard or read about Jesus get to heaven? What happens to babies that die and all those who never have heard of Jesus?  

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The consequences of not following the instructions...

Problem: I got into an argument with my wife. She will not cook dinner for me like she usually does because I put together the cabinet she bought wrong. I thought I should be able to figure out how to put it together properly but there was a piece I couldn't find near the end and it is still missing. She took revenge by not sharing dinner with me.

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Getting lost driving...

Problem: This may sound like a silly problem, but I always get lost when I am driving somewhere new. I have such a bad sense of direction I even forget how I got into a subdivision. I'm often late as a result, or waste a lot of time getting around.

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Are you tempted to believe the Dream-killers?

Problem: I am working so hard and I do not see my dream coming to reality. Everyone is telling me I should abandon it. I'm not making any money and I will never make any money. They say I should do something more realistic and they all have suggestions, but I was trying to do something I love.

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QUESTIONS AND RESPONSES

THE FAIRNESS OF GOD

Question asked by multiple people:

Based on your understanding, Is there a common link between the religions of the world?  Also, since Jesus said that no one cometh to the FATHER but by me, can anyone who has never heard or read about Jesus get to heaven? What happens to babies that die and all those who never have heard of Jesus?

Response - In short, the answer to the first question is no, and our answer is well-justified below. Most religions are based upon man trying to reach God or gods. But Christianity (when it is defined as the faith of people who have accepted Jesus Christ as their personal Lord and Saviour) is the only one that explains that God had a plan to save man from the beginning, as a loving, all-knowing, all-powerful creator would, by sending his son to man to pay the penalty for mankind's sins (if accepted by man as man's Lord and Saviour). 

To understand the need for Jesus we compare the world to a high school in which everyone had a failing grade. There was so much fighting at the school that one student almost was killed right before exams, and all the students were suspended and missed final exams so no one could make it into university based upon their merit (they would have all failed even had they taken the final exams, but the key point here is that there is no one final test of performance for admission into heaven). 

The Dean of the University was merciful, and although he realized no one qualified for entrance based upon the admissions standards he set out, he offered a scholarship - to pay the price for admittance - to those who would accept it. That scholarship into Peace University (heaven) is Jesus Christ, the son of God, who was born of Mary in the flesh and was crucified to pay the price for the sins of the entire world, and then resurrected to sit at the right hand of God the father in heaven. 

Have you accepted the scholarship to live forever? Will you now, to have the peace of mind of knowing you will live forever when you die, and have the numerous blessings of a relationship with God now? To see how, click on Request Share .

Since we have just explained it in short, and in further detail in the longer version below, you are in the group of people that have heard this good news (the gospel). 

God is calling you now to confess that you have also missed the mark - the standard of perfection set by God which we have all missed - and accept Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour, and start a personal relationship with God which will provide you with direction for your life. Click on Request Share to be led in the prayer of salvation (to be accepted into the family of God and receive the gift of eternal life). 

We trust in God, who is perfect by definition, to apply grace in a perfect manner to those who never got the chance to accept or reject Jesus Christ, like babies, young children, and those before and after Christ who die not having ever heard the gospel. Different theologians and followers of Christ have different views on this, and we do not stand in the place of God to judge this matter which is not a question that pertains to you because you have just heard the gospel. More insight into this more difficult question, but much less important for you who have heard, is provided in the longer version below.

The full version of the analogy which provides a more detailed answer is below, which has scriptural references from the bible at the bottom. 

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FULL VERSION:

Once upon a time, there was a group of students in their last year at a high school, which was in a poor neighbourhood and had a bad reputation. Most other schools thought the only thing the school had going for it was that it had a great football team that could make it far. Some players had scouts looking at them for potential football scholarships to good colleges. 

There was a boy at that school named John that tried hard to follow his teachers' instructions. Like all of the other students, he had a failing grade, but he was a great student in the sense that he loved to learn and was dedicated to improving his performance. When he failed a test he saw the teacher so that he could get extra help, apologized for not doing better and he went over every test he failed with the teacher after school so that he would do better on future tests and get into university. He wanted to study International Development Studies and negotiate truces worldwide to help create a more peaceful world.

The other students failed tests and did not care. They went to play football after school and made fun of him behind his back. A large group of the stars on the football team beat him up on his way home every time he stayed after school with the teacher. They also pressured other students into helping them bother him or beat him up. This was against school rules obviously, and the students that got caught beating him up got suspended. Some of them would come back to school and continue to beat him up and just try not to do it on school property so they would not get caught, hoping no teachers would know who participated and who did not.  

As a result of hearing about this, the teachers wrote it into the school rules that the students were responsible for their behaviour everywhere and they distributed the rules to the students on the football team that came to a meeting they held. The teachers told the students that it was in their best interest to get the rules to everyone and help them to follow them so that the football program did not get cancelled, and they would have a chance of getting into university.

Just before final exams John spent a lot of extra time with the teacher and this really bothered the big kids that usually beat him up. The Friday before the week that final exams started, some instigators got all the students to follow him home and beat him up worse than ever before, meaning for him to be unable to study for or write the exams so he would not have a chance of getting into university. Those who did not participate looked on and did not stop it. He hit his head on the pavement in the fight and he was knocked unconscious. No one knew who had delivered the blow that caused it. They needed to call 911 and an ambulance rushed him to the hospital with life-threatening head trauma and bleeding on the brain. 

The teachers found out that John was in the hospital and the whole football program got cancelled. All the students were involved somehow at some point, so the whole graduating class got suspended. Since it was right before exams they all failed all of their final exams so they would not qualify for admission into any post-secondary institution - after all, the teachers said that they had been warned and they had to set an example so that never happened at their school again.

The teachers got together and tried to get a brain surgeon to volunteer his services, because John came from a poor family that could not afford a brain surgeon. The best brain surgeon around heard about the sad story. The great physician came to the boy's aid right away, seeming to appear out of nowhere to save him. He performed surgery on John's brain and the operation was a complete success. The teachers and John's family were overjoyed and thanked the physician for saving John's life free of charge.

When John had fully recovered, the best university in the area, named Peace University, gave him a full scholarship to study International Development Studies the next year. Some of the other students applied to get entrance to the school through a special application for students that had extenuating circumstances that did not allow them to meet the admission requirements. 

The Dean knew about the whole story from reading about it in the paper, talking to the teachers and reading several different students' applications. The Dean decided to have an individual interview with each applicant before deciding whether to admit each applicant into the university or not.

No one from John's high school had high enough grades to gain normal entry into the school, but he wanted to admit as many students as he could trust to accept the peaceful code of conduct at Peace University.

The questions he asked each applicant were as follows:

"Do you think what was happening to John was wrong?"

(Everyone that was being honest said that they knew it was wrong - even those that were never disciplined or spoken to directly by the teachers, even those who never read that it was against school rules to beat up students on or off school property, even the leaders of the group that beat him up, even the students that had done it before it was written down explicitly into the school rules that students were responsible for their actions off of school property - they all knew it was wrong within their heart, or in other words, their conscience told them. Some that would have lied never applied and the Dean could easily tell who applied and lied about whether they knew it was wrong, and who lied about what they did).

"Did you ever follow John home with the football team?"

"What did you do?"

"Did you ever get in trouble by the teachers for what took place?"

"Did you continue to follow John home with the team afterwards?"

"If you thought it was wrong, what did you decide to do about that?"

In the interviews, some students tried to blame their actions on other students. All the Dean said was, "Listen, I have a separate interview with each applicant. Each applicant is responsible for him or herself and is assessed individually based upon him or herself - I will speak to all applicants and about what each applicant did with that applicant and only that applicant. This is YOUR interview. I want to know about the decisions YOU made and what you were thinking. What decisions did you make and what were you thinking?"

Some applicants admitted responsibility for their improper actions and apologized, were forgiven, and were accepted into Peace university on a special scholarship offered by the Dean due to his wonderful forgiving nature. Unfortunately, some refused to admit they did anything wrong and did not get accepted and never got anywhere in life. Some who accepted the scholarship thanked the Dean and said, "Why could you not forgive us all? I thought you were so gracious and forgiving?"

He said, "Some of the students knew it was wrong and continued to beat John up and would have indefinitely. They were called to stop many times and they refused repeatedly. How can I forgive those who will not acknowledge their wrongdoing and ask for forgiveness? They were the ones who would also continue to do the same thing here and bring violence to Peace University. Do you think you can judge more fairly than me; you who took part in hurting John? You who did not stop the others? You who know you are fortunate that I forgave you, paid your tuition for you, and to whom I gave an opportunity to learn how to truly live peacefully? 

"That same student with a great attitude, John, is here and he is a great ambassador of peace. How could I admit those students who would come in here and continue to beat him up? Do you not realize how much I love John and all of you; all equally by the way? Do you think I could admit them who would kill students in here? John almost died already; they made him not finish high school. I am ensuring that he and all the rest of you will be able to study in peace here. Here you can be even better than John was before...here you can achieve the perfection he sought after. Do not worry about the others who would also hurt him here had I let them in. I do not know who told them our football team here is important, but it was not me. Peace and love are what is important here, or there would be no football team - just like there is no longer one at your old high school!"  

Blasphemy against the Holy Spirit is the never-ending refusal to accept the call of God to repentance and Jesus refers to this as unforgivable in the bible in Matthew 12:31; offenders are the people symbolized by the students that did not enter Peace University. Their choice to refuse to repent of their wrongdoing is what dooms them to hell.

There are many schools of thought and religions, and some of them contain some of the truth, but also some error. The whole truth remains in the most widely available book in the world - the Holy Bible (the school rules in the above story are God's commands given to us in the bible...which none of us are able to follow perfectly). Would God not be the judge of each individual in perfect fairness? Is it not hard enough for us to do the right thing ourselves rather than to worry about how God will fairly judge and forgive or not forgive everyone else?  

The Dean is willing to forgive you for all of your mistakes if you request forgiveness and repent (become willing to turn away from wrong behaviour). He paid the price for you to get into Peace University. Do you accept His scholarship? The Dean is God and the scholarship is God's son, Jesus Christ. Jesus is also the great physician who saves lives and can make you better if you invite him into your life. Peace University is Heaven. Please see the Request Share link for more information on accepting God's gift of eternal life. The student named John represents all of God's followers who committed to following God from the beginning of the world...but even today's Christians at our best still fall short of God's perfect standard and need to depend upon His mercy.

Where are the principle references that helped us to answer the original question in the bible (the Phree Shares Inc. business plan)?

Biblical references:

Luke 12: 47-48

Romans 1: 18-20

John 3:16

John 14: 26.

Titus 2: 11

James 4:17

Matthew 12:31

The answers to every possible question about salvation (accepting the scholarship, which is symbolic of receiving eternal life) are not provided here, but we have provided enough information for it to be obvious that it is best to accept Jesus Christ and gain eternal life. In his perfect timing, God can answer any other questions that you need answered. 

If you are still searching for understanding, we recommend that you start reading the new testament. And you can ask God questions directly and wait patiently for him to answer you. He is the wisest professor. If he cannot teach you with words and you need to know, he will take you through events that will teach you. 

Remember that God loves you enough to give you the freedom to choose, but he desires so much for you to choose to accept his scholarship offer now! Why would anyone reject such a valuable opportunity offered by the creator of the universe? It may be tempting to put such a serious decision off because you do not want to accept the changes you feel you will be prompted to make as a follower of Jesus Christ (like giving up behaviour you recognize as un-Godly). However, we encourage you not to play such a dangerous game, as you do not know when your time could be up, and it could come unexpectedly.

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The consequences of not following the instructions...

Problem: I got into an argument with my wife. She will not cook dinner for me like she usually does because I put together the cabinet she bought wrong. I thought I should be able to figure out how to put it together properly but there was a piece I couldn't find near the end and it is still missing. She took revenge by not sharing dinner with me.

Response - Some questions you could ask yourself to arrive at a solution:

Did you read the instructions and follow them? Most instructions start off by telling you to verify that you have all of the pieces before you start. Do you realize that some of us are over-confident and arrogant and think we can figure out how to put things together without reading and following instructions? Whereas some of us have learned to put things together properly because we are not over-confident in our abilities and we appreciate the benefits of reading and following the instructions? Arrogance causes many problems in life for those who are arrogant and frustrates others that try to help, lead or direct them. 

Have you asked your wife to forgive you for the mistake caused by not reading the instructions? If you refused to read the instructions even though she asked you to, did you tell her you learned the result of not listening to her and apologized? There are benefits to following the rules in life - and to listening to good advice from your husband or wife. Have you considered making one of your guidelines that you must read and follow instructions, since you do not know everything? This applies to life in many ways - more rules are in the Phree Shares Inc. business plan (the bible). One of those rules is one your wife needs to follow; that you should forgive one another.

Our message to your wife is that patience is a virtue and forgiveness is divine. Taking revenge can take away peace and leave people in pieces. This treatment will hurt her as well in the process. Unwillingness to forgive hurts the person unwilling to forgive because it can block the forgiveness of God, which we all need desperately. Married couples and even those dating should rise above this childish game of revenge as it only leads to discord.

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Getting lost driving...

Problem: This may sound like a silly problem, but I always get lost when I am driving somewhere new. I have such a bad sense of direction I even forget how I got into a subdivision or which way I turned into a plaza or entrance. I'm often late as a result, or waste a lot of time getting around.

Response - Some questions you could ask yourself to arrive at a solution: 

Why do you see that as a silly problem? A lot of people struggle with directions and get lost often.  Have you considered planning your route with a map anytime you are going somewhere new? Do you make it a point to consciously focus on remembering where you went in and which way you have to turn out (in the case of a subdivision)? Do you write out your directions and remember which way you have to turn, a minimum of two turns at a time (so you have to re-read the directions after each turn while you are driving)? Do you make it a conscious point to pay attention to where you are going, instead of concentrating on something else like problems or a conversation inside the car or on a cellular phone? Have you tried to learn cardinal directions (north, south, east and west) and take them down as well as "turn right, next left" so that you can have an additional way of figuring out which way to turn whether you are coming or going? Finally, if you still get lost, have you considered admitting this early and stopping and asking someone for directions? Don't you think that most people will be happy to help you? The earlier you do this the less time you will waste trying unsuccessfully to find your way on your own. Just be careful who you ask and where you ask them - obviously, doing so must be safe.

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Are you tempted to believe the Dream-killers?

Problem: I am working so hard and I do not see my dream coming to true. Everyone is telling me I should abandon it. I'm not making any money and I will never make any money. They say I should do something more realistic and they all have suggestions, but I was trying to do something I love.

Response - Some questions you could ask yourself to arrive at a solution:

This is very common in life. Please see the free idea posted on July 8th, 2003 - it deals with this exact situation! The parents are proud when their son graduated because he did exactly what they wanted him to do - he might as well have gotten the diploma in their name instead of his own! Have you considered how you will feel if you do what others want you to do? How will you feel about yourself and them? Will you blame yourself for your lack of confidence in yourself, lack of patience in pursuit of your dream and blame them for their input or pressure? Are they dream-killers like many of the over 6 billion adults on earth? Are they right? Is it really impossible, improbable, unlikely, or just something new and unique that is invaluable?...and like most things new, unique or different, will it take plenty of sacrifice and patience to see it to fruition? 

Do you have to do it at the same time as you do something else to make it happen...in a sense doing something like others suggest you do, something you can make money more easily doing, at the same time as continuing to do what you want to do? See the links on the left, "Hire Yourself" and "Start A Club" as examples. If you do something considered "more realistic" because you feel like you have to, does that mean you have to abandon your dream, or just relegate it to different hours and work on it in a different way? Why do you let failures worry you? Do you not realize that they are the building blocks of great successes? If you have not seen examples of this in your life, maybe your definition of success is incorrect. Have your so-called failures not succeeded in teaching you something valuable? If they succeeded in making you wiser, how were they failures at all? You can make those lessons the building blocks of future successes. That is, if you do not give up.  

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Note: The problems above were real problems that have been modified in some cases for the reader's benefit.

 

 

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